A summer research attempt (kind of)
Earlier this month, British Vogue published an article by Zing Tsjeng titled “Where Are All the Eligible Men?” – exploring why so many smart, funny, attractive women are still single, and whether there’s actually a shortage of compatible men… or just a modern dating crisis. She argues that while women have grown emotionally, professionally, and socially, the dating pool hasn’t really caught up.
So we wanted to do some research of our own and share our take. But when we googled it... this happened:
Google AI delivered a fully formed answer.
In bold, bullet-pointed clarity.
And honestly? It's 33°C outside.
So we thought: screw it. Let’s run with it.
Here’s what the machine thinks.
Our editorial notes below – obviously.
(Disclaimer: AI responses may include mistakes. Like the one about online dating obviously.)
"Eligible men" can be found in a variety of places, both online and offline, depending on their interests and lifestyle. Some popular options include gyms, social events, classes, and workplaces. Specific hobbies or interests can also be a good way to meet like-minded individuals.
(So far, so good.)
Places to Meet Eligible Men
Social Events
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Networking events
These events can be great for meeting professionals in various fields. (yes 100%) -
Conferences and workshops
These attract individuals with specific interests or expertise. (like snoozing in the back row) -
Parties and dinners
Parties, and other social events can be a good way to meet people in a relaxed setting. (Bonus points for cheese plates.)
Hobbies & Clubs
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Sports
Join sports leagues or clubs, attend sporting events, or participate in fitness classes. (Careful: Stay HI-drated) -
Special interest groups
Look for groups focused on activities like hiking, photography, board games, or other hobbies. (Like Mudlarking. Look it up.) -
Book clubs or classes
Shared interests = shared shelves.
Other (Non-Weird) Suggestions
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Volunteering
Get involved in causes you care about and meet others who share your values. -
Workplace
While dating a coworker can be tricky, it's still a common way to meet people. (Except: Coldplay concert) -
Friends of friends
Don't underestimate the power of introductions through your existing social circle. (Wing-Man vs Wing-Shirt) -
Travel
Solo travel or joining travel groups can be a great way to meet people from different backgrounds. (True, we will get back to that)
Online (But…)
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Dating apps
(Not our fave. Swipe fatigue is real. Wear a shirt instead.) -
Social media
Follow groups, pages, interests. -
Online classes and workshops
(Really?)
Tips for Meeting Eligible Men
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Be open to new experiences
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Be yourself
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Be approachable
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Be proactive
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Be patient
Editor’s note: Or just go outside, look up, and SAY HI. That works too.
